A recent debate has occurred

A recent debate has occurred between friends across continents and sexes and that is what is a fuck buddie? Now being female I assumed it was what the titles states someone you have sex with and that is all and talking to close female friends they share the same view. It is just sex and that is all. But when asking men the same question they seem to think it's more. Sex, cuddles, chilling, watching films and hanging out. But this is where the dilema lies because when these things happen, to us (women) that is more than just FB's. That is a basis of a relationship, spending time together and getting to know each other is how wires get crossed. I now understand why so many people end up in tears or men assume women are to needy and clingy when in fact they have clearly stated it is nothing more than what it says on the tin. 

Women are women and if a man does more than they say they will, we will assume it is more than what it is this. What I've figured out is men want all the nicestes of a relationship and of course the sex but with out the actual commitment. But that in it's self leads to the confusion. It makes something that has clearly been stated more complex. Maybe this is because the man assumes that this is what the women wants. But really anyone that signs up for this unless they think they can change the mans thoughts and make them fall madly in love, I don't personally know, knows the deal. They know it is what it is. But when the cuddles and kisses and time spent just hanging out. Cooking dinner, constant text and increase interest gets involved that's the begining of something. Whether both parties want it or not.

My own personal opinion is the only thing that dificierates between a friend and a boyfriend is sex. Otherwise your just friends. Or alternatively fuck buddies.